I’m late to The Boyfriend train but I binged it yesterday. I don’t care for reality tv but I was curious, it’s very obvious that many people are going to misunderstand Shun and his actions and yes there were some times where I was like “Shun common” but as someone who had been in toxic relationships I understand Shun and I don’t think him setting boundaries for Dai is a bad thing. Shun didn’t want to get hurt again so he put walls up to avoid it and that’s completely understandable. He eventually brought those walls lower once he started to trust Dai.