This was a drama with romanace in the mixed. I appreciated all 4 of the main characters and how they protrayed genuine behaviors of people without too much melodrama. Hai Qing is an adult who doesn’t seem to express his feeling or thoughts well (he would have exasperated me). He is headstrong and indecisive. He also just comes off crude to me occasionally when dealing with good friends. I hope he'll grow to be better. Yan Fei was handsome, well off and should know better than to date two people at one time. He seems put together amd he is for the most but we all have our hang ups. What he let occur while he was with Jimmy was messy. With Jimmy, I've never been in his situation so I didn’t understand why he could not let go of Yan Fei. But it took me a few episodes to see that he alone is not the villain. But also he's not a villian at all, but more lost and doesnt want to let go of what is familiar and safe. I believe he had dreams for a future with Yan Fei and I don't fault him for that. Ping Jun, I sorta get him. Taking care of people is somwthing he has done all his life, it made him patient and kind. So I get how he gravitated to Hai Qing. I feel like it's hard to see our self-worth outside of our wants. And that we put up with things we should not. This drama was well acted and portrayed. Not a picture perfect romance for anyone. Merely a reality of harsher truths. The message I took away is "love yourself enough to be honest about what you want and from who and respect your partner enough to be truthful if you need to break-up or change how the relationship is functioning." Sometimes life is not about what we derseve so much as what we allow.