I went this experience by influence of a review where s/he mentioned that fl Strong and know how back thing's on people its totally opposite of their word's yes I agree she struggle for her identity in society but that doesn't mean she strong enough to idealize her she is average woman with only education knowledge which take her high in her professional life but not in personal life she can be easily manipulated by people and after knowing that she let go things

Same as I can say about ml that's why they suit each other

The things I liked about this drama
Two brothers love
All villain are in characters specially imperial consort
Ml fl love only for each other never changed theirs hearts for a sec (one woman man/one man woman)