Soredemo ai o Chikaimasu ka? (2021)

Long comme un jour sans pain....

Il va falloir que je perde cette habitude de regarder un drama jusqu'au bout, vaille que vaille.
J'ai perdu la quasi totalité de 4 heures de ma vie en regardant celui-ci.
Et c'est bien fait pour moi.
Je ne me sens même pas motivée pour en écrire une critique objective, c'est dire.
Jun et Takeyori ont une vie sexuelle inexistante, depuis 5 ans.
Takeyori, semble-t-il, a un blocage concernant un éventuel enfant. La contraception n'existe pas, au pays du soleil levant ? Enfin, ce ne doit pas être le seul blocage, parce que je ne vois pas trop, sinon. Je vous le dis, j'ai dû passer à côté d'un truc.
Jun le vit apparemment pas trop mal, mais du coup, son rôle de femme au foyer, sans être mère au foyer, ne lui suffit plus et elle reprend une activité.
Entre temps, Takeyori revoit une ancienne petite amie de lycée, sans qu'il y ait vraiment de tromperie mais le doute s'installe.
Ajoutons à l'ensemble un bien mignon Mayama Atsuro, collègue de travail de Jun, plus jeune qu'elle, et qui craque pour elle.
Mais le bonhomme est timide, vit chez maman, porte un masque en permanence pour se couper des autres.... Bref, c'est pas simple.
Je me suis prise à espérer que Jun craque également pour lui,mais non ! En dehors d'un baiser hotissime, rien; et elle le largue aussi sec.
Même le divorce voulu par Takeyori, "par amour pour Jun" (lolilol, j'adore ce genre de niaiserie), tourne court.

La fin...ben c'est comme le début : sans saveur,sans couleur, ch***t au possible.
Une réussite, vraiment.

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When I was watching this drama I didn't understand anything that was happening and at the end I was like what the fuck did I just see?

You know in Japan it is super important to get married and we all know that. But being with a person with whom you cannot have sex or children for 5 years, what the hell, don't even get married for that.

The office kiss scene was very sensual but they really put it in if nothing was going to happen. I think the best thing would have been for her to divorce him and be with her co-worker who he liked and was sexually attracted to.

You know this is a serious problem, and I know it from experience with my ex-boyfriend. You begin to feel that you are the one who has a problem, instead of noticing that the one who has a problem is the man.

My ex-partner couldn't have sex with me, no matter how hard I tried. Then something happened, and I found out that he had lied to his family and told them that it had only happened once, when we were never able to have sex and he had the nerve to tell his father that it was my fault. . Obviously his father did not believe him, and he told him that he should go to the doctor. But he was even so embarrassed that his father had to say that the doctor's appointment was for him because she was unable to understand that his problem was his and not mine.

I really don't know what happened next because I broke up with him. Not because he had a problem with not being able to have sex, but because he blamed me and didn't even try to make the situation change. I wasn't going to waste my time with a man like him, ever again.

Many times men refuse to go see a doctor, even though they know it is a big problem because they tend to think that they are "less of a man." But if that happens to you, stop being stupid and go see a damn doctor.

Ultimately, this can cause serious problems with your partner or your future partners. Because you know it's not just about the sexual issue, but you are causing serious problems for your partner. Your partner will begin to feel insecure and will blame themselves for the fact that everything that is happening to you is because they have a problem and their self-esteem will go down the drain. And that happened to me, to the point of thinking that she was not physically attractive, but with my current boyfriend I realized that nothing that had happened was my fault. And I was able to regain my self-esteem in myself.

So I didn't understand the protagonist's final decision either. Perhaps there is a slightly twisted message that women should endure these situations.
It's honestly one of the worst dramas I've ever seen in my life.
And I honestly don't recommend anyone watch this.

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