a tough start. before anything have to say;…

a tough start. before anything have to say; reading a comment that said "all is fair in love and war" irritated me (get where the commenter was coming from), but the idea isn't acceptable to me! would like to think that people should try n keep a semblance of humanity/compassion in both situations. Know, it's easier said then done!! but that would be a better world, then one where people follows the rules of the saying, that is self-serving n a Very sad reality to exist in ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ *************************************************************************************************************************************************************seeing the confrontation between ex-lovers, i get both POV's. when u've been with someone for a while (someone u once loved), u do things just to avoid hurting them more then necessary. but that doesn't mean it's a good idea or that either in the right. Wen out of guilt (maybe), stayed beside Alan hoping that his enabling a friendship, would lessen the hurt n his guilt. which logically backfired, as Alan subconsciously (or not) thought that the love they had, could be "recovered", if Wen's ready to stay, that means there is a chance they could recover the love they had. both in the wrong, cause neither is getting what they want, n never will. ********************************************************************************************************************sometimes u need to be cruel to be kind - Wen should've said no, no to living together, no to staying friends - just NO. but Wen tends to be manipulative (n self-centered). the more this ep progresses u see that all his actions r self-serving. as Alan was the one that loved n gave more in that 'ship' - Wen the taker, can't seem to break out of the comfy mold, even when he knows he is giving Alan false hope. ***************************************************************************************************************how many times Gong gotta advise him at the folly of his behavior? until he finally ends it with Alan? but he can't/wont look for another place, he goes from one "giver" to the next (he knows Jim will help him / take him in). he taking care of how many?!? what's one more?!?( ˘︹˘ ) this a healthy relationship?!? this love? yeah, the toxic kind(ノω<。)ノ*********************************how sad that the reason Gaipa & his mother r being so helpful, is cause Gaipa has a crush on someone who doesn't know he exist (unless he needs something). not saying Jim's taking advantage - but this still sadder then anything happening between Jim & Wen. cause both mother n son deserve better! ***********************************************************************************************************************************************************************************************************************love Ming & Heart, they sweet, pure n wholesome - but what happens to Heart, as Ming planning on leaving?!? the confrontation with his parents needed to happen, cause the conditions he's living in r ridiculous. he just a teen, n has to live a long independent life. Get his parents treating him like he fragile, trying to keep him in cotton at home, where he wouldn't get hurt or sick. but that aint a life - so the big blow-up (i hope) will be cathartic

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