You are My Destiny (2020)

Lovely start, draggy anti-climatic ending!!

Let me start by saying, that I loved this drama so much until episode 25, when all the misunderstandings started. I could have dealt with it, if they had not lengthen the misunderstandings until the last episode.

Story:
The overall storyline is great, I really do believe that this story is way better constructed and more logical than the Taiwanese and Korean versions. The main complaint I have and the reason why I grade it so low is, as mentioned before the minimal time spent in the happy ending, because it did not resolve all my feelings of anger and felt too rushed. This left me with a very bitter taste, because the happy ending lasted at most 10 minutes. I feel the ending is too rushed and the misunderstandings kept for way too long, to the point where you question the great "love" the main female character has for the main male character.

The strength of this story lies on it being more real, and on us seeing the main male character falling in love, unlike the Taiwanese version, where I believe the main male character realizes his love when the main female character has the accident. But this version makes the main female character too prideful in her denial of her love. I mean in the last episode she already knew all that he went through the past 3 years and how much he loves her, he's been literally begging her for another chance, and she still keeps her intention of leaving?? WTH??

Acting/Cast:
This was so great, I've got no complains there. Xing Zhao Lin and Liang Jie have great chemistry with each other and literally shine when they are together. I love the rest of cast, especially the Grandma and Mom of the main characters. Anson was a surprise, I know his character is to provide comic relief and he did his job very well. This is the version where Anna, is the most obnoxious and terrible human being, with so little self-esteem that she wants to be with someone who patently does not love her, but that was the way the character was written, so the actress did a great job. Dylan in this version was lovely and not at all pushy in his love for Jia Xin, unlike the Taiwanese version.

Music:
It was the best!! I love the rhythm and the lyrics, so appropriate to the story and the characters. To this day, I still listen to them!!

Rewatch Value:
For me is close to non-existent, because of the lengthening of misunderstandings in this version and the very poor wrap up off the whole story at the end. I will not put myself up for that kind of torture again, I may watch some sweet and funny scenes again, but never the whole drama. Which is a shame because it started so well, grounded the drama in so much "reality", unlike the cartoonish Taiwanese version and the sometimes cringy Korean version, but this Chinese version left me feeling so much anger and hopelessness!! If they had at least added one more episode, to give the viewer sweetness overload after all the bitterness we swallowed, it would have been the greatest version of them all.

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Not worthy of your time

If I am being honest I finish it but skipping like the last 5 eps before the finale.
I had high expectations it sounded great it was something new but it sucked the beginning wasn't that bad except that they are expecting a child coming from an affair , the dramas was too much hated the 2FL even though her apparition was during the last episodes if we don't count the flashbacks, calls etc. ML was annoying he was to confusing I am mad at the fact that he didn't tell his gf about the baby even though he had chances of coming clean even if it was from a call and how he lead the FL and make her feel bad from time to time apart from him starting to date the FL without properly breaking up with the 2FL, I think what triggers me the most is that he continued being friends with 2FML after everything I get if he forgiven her by what she did but he continue being FRIENDS .
it is kind of off annoying the FL was presented as not strong after wards she became more strong but still, the communication between the leads was a mess.
overall it was to frustrating and exhausting I tried to make these review with the least spoilers possible and this is just my opinion.
Lets not forget that this drama is not 20 ep or so it is 36 eps almost 40 of about 40 min each i felt like i lost so much of time.

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Maybe if you like melodramas?

I like the leads and find the supporting cast to be generally good but they weren’t enough to overcome clunky dialog (maybe it is poor translation), the cheesy premise of the series, or the stilted and unnecessary English dialogue. I can’t help wondering if some roles were miscast. It also seemed like there was a lot of dubbing which feels odd and smacks of poor production quality.

Xing Zhao Lin is attractive and funny and can sing, but it’s hard to watch him cry. Is that how he cries in real life? Maybe the clunky dialogue and awkward scenes make it hard for him to cry when needed? He does a good enough job with other scenes and otherwise conveys that he is hurt by his loss, but I just can’t tell if he is laughing or crying.

The way that they styled Liang Jie in the first episodes of the series seems too cartoonish like they miscast her in this series. She is so good in other roles and seems more comfortable as the series progresses that I can’t tell if it’s because her character arc brings her character more in line with her persona or if it’s the writing and directing.

Li Jiulin is an attractive and capable second male lead. He is well cast because it fits with his public image. He is a solid, versatile actor and isn’t really challenged by having to play a range of emotions in this role. He shows in Circle of Love that he has the ability to bring depth and range to a role.

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Such a Disappointing drama

Wow. Just wow
I have seen so many bad reviews on this drama and I agree with all of them. I haven't watched the original yet and I am currently watching the Taiwanese version. The only reason I got into this show is that I like the trope but the way this drama was executed was so poor. After the first I watched I was already sick of it while questioning my decision to drop it, I came here for spoilers and I was glad I did.

At first, the story was cute and I loved their chemistry and the idea of them being brought close together by the baby. Also, the fact that he gives her confidence and she can finally get rid of that annoying sticky note girl persona and then I come here to find out that all of that went to waste.
From the abortion/miscarriage to the divorce and breakup all of it seems like too much drama. I really didn't want her to lose the baby but now that I see she did I may not even watch any of them from the series. I am so glad I saved myself the trouble because as a long-time Asian drama watcher I have this thing where I don't drop the drama but instead stick till the end just to say I finished it.

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A Very Soapy Ride

When I first started this drama I was unaware there were two other versions, but since I am a completist I took some time to check out the other versions before deciding on the one I would watch. I wasn't going to watch them all because there are other dramas in the world . The Korean version was too slapstick for my taste, and the original Thai version was too outdated. The switcheroo romance plot has been done and redone so many times and in so many forms, that there 's nothing original to be found in any of the versions. It really all comes to down to the execution. and IMO the Chinese version is the best executed. This version has a strong narrative plot from beginning to end and that's probably because it embraces the melodrama. The OST which is full of sad piano melodies and moody guitar riffs fits the story, so it does feel like watching a daytime soap. There are tense stand offs and "oh shit" moments a plenty to keep you entertained. This version also has better supporting characters, which speaks to the stronger narrative structure of the entire drama. There were times where I was a bit bored while watching this, but generally speaking I didn't FF through much of it because it plays well in the background; and, there were times I was glued to the screen because I couldn't tear my eyes away. At 36 episodes ranging from 45-55 minutes per episode, this is a drama that requires a time investment, so I wouldn't recommend it unless you specifically like the rich man/poor woman trope and or second chance romances.

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Excellent Remake!

I loved all of the remakes of this story, but this one had the emotional draw that captivated me throughout without being contrived. So many negative comments that were so shallow. Dramas are becoming fast food these days and people just want to get through to the ending! This remake had the emotional elements that helped you see what the two main characters went through in their hearts. The protagonists weren't dragged out for endless episodes. And I thought the ending was sweet and complete. Anna got her due! And parts of the battle that kept them apart, what I thought would be agonizing (because I read some negative reviews!) were actually really enjoyable. A very happy ending! If you love this particular story, you will love this remake! It added things that the other dramas missed.

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re-watched

This Series is still MY # 1....
Just finished RE-WATCHED it... i still get the same excitement, sadness & Happiness while watching this... It maybe a remake of "Fated To Love U" of K-drama but this is lighter plot & full of sweetness between FL & ML.
The 2 Main lead did well... Liang Jie (FL) when she cries i cry too, she is so good here.. from that naive look to sophisticated look she nailed it.... Zhao Lin (ML) my Cricket hehehe.... U are really a good kisser :D... they are my fave couple..... ohhh the 2nd Lead actor.. gosh hope to see him more... he is hot... :D
I recom U to watch it if U didnt... promise U wont regret it....

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It is an awesome drama with a good cast. For a more similar drama with English sub watch here
RomanticDrama
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I do pity Anna, in this version, she is the victim. But I don't really feel sorry because she always put herself first.
She is the most shameless person I've ever seen. I had enough of her bullshit and useless effort towards the end.
Actually I like how Xiyi slowly to draw line between them as time passes so Anna realize that Xiyi doesn't love her anymore.

Like other cdramas, we are always got a secondary couple.
Anson's finally got a loveline!!! His life isn't revolved around his boss anymore.
I love Anson is always sarcastic and blatant-ly talking to Xiyi whenever he does mistakes.
His love-story with Jia Xin's friend, Siqi (Yes, our snail also finally has a loyal-friend), is quite cute. I love to see their bickering yet romantic even tho it just a contract relationship.

After the miscarriage incident, actually I cried a lot.
Ofc it'd hurt to anyone who experience this kind of thing, especially they are waiting the baby to born.
Both Xiyi and Jia Xin having hard time to face each other. Both of them are blaming themselves much.
It is understandble for Jia Xin to leave, she need times more than anything.

It's ended safely but I feel a little bit unsatisfied with how they solved the paper incident.
Anyway, this one is good and enjoyable to watch. Not a really tearjerker because I find Zhaolin's crying is funny to watch.

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Real love won't be defeated

This a very good drama focused on Wang XI Yi and Chen Xia Jin characters, feelings and emotions.
To me, "You are my destiny" has nothing to do with the original taiwanese "Fated to love you", and they aren't to be compared. Too many changes in the chinese version make the characters different. You have in here a drama with a happy ending (the taiwanese version is an outstanding comedy).
In " You are my destiny", I liked the filming, the music and the acting. The story progression is good and you really get interested in the 2 main characters. You will share their feelings, their doubts, their stubbornness... You will understand their points of view and hope that Wang Xi Yi will be able to get her loved one back to him...
Love scenes and emotions are credible, there's a good chemistry between actors.
If you like not easy love stories , this one is worth to be watched.

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Good start, but the ending could be better!

STORY:
The storyline was quite well-developed for the first half of the series. The "happy" ending seems a bit too abrupt. Last few episodes were a little draggy. Another flaw as I watching the show since JianXin was pregnant - her baby bump doesn't show much even up to the stage she was about over 4 months preggy (hence, a little bit unrealistic IMO).

ACTING/CAST:
Great acting and chemistry from both main leads. The rest of the supporting roles were great too. Love granny Zhenzhu in this show :)

MUSIC:
Great high quality OSTs - especially the ones by Bai Ann and also Della. Both main leads sang an OST together too. The OSTs helped to bring out the emotions for quite a few scenes - which really made me tear.

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