Viața E Complicată (2018)

The Story of Him, A man

(It's morning, I just completed the show, nd this is first song on utube reccs, so I m pretty tranced while writing the review)


When I first opened MYDRAMALIST I was like wtf, such high scores, even such avg lookin and sounding (aynopsis) have all have rating of 8,9 etc

And the top position always changes, nd whatever the best that year it becomes in the TOP SHOW, based in all criterias, at first I thought it was like imdb, where a large group spams scores, but then I understood, unlike anime

KDRAMA is an ever evolving entity, every quarter a much better version comes in form of a show


Now speakin of the show, uffff well what to say


First a lot of things linked up even before I saw the show

It was aired just after MOTHER(the show I saw last week) , so like they have slot of 9.30 to 10.30, thirsdats and fridays and their r 4 quarters,

Jan to March was taken by MOTHER

MARCH TO MAY or I think June was taken THIs show

nd the rest of the year it gave the most popular of shows


secondly the person playin the main character, was the same actor as the rich guy in PARASITE

Coming to the actual show


I was confused of the show's first 40minutes , now the shit is unlike anime, kdrama's drama content and twists happen within just first two eps

Lemme give the example by reciting the synopsis of the show


"""
CHARA A is a middle-aged engineer who is married to attorney WIFE.

However, his life is not that happy as he has two unemployed brothers, CHARA C and CHARA D, who rely on him.

Moreover, his wife is secretly having an affair with VILLAN A , CHARA A's college junior but current boss.


One day, CHARA A receives an unexpected bribe and notices that his co-worker, CHARA B, witnessed the incident.

CHARA B is a young part-time worker at CHARA A's company who is drowning in debt and left alone to take care of her ill grandmother.

CHARA A then gets entangled in his brothers' struggle to get back on their feet

and the company's internal rivalry between the company's CEO VILLAN A and the people opposing him.

All the while, not knowing that VILLAN A wants to get rid of him,

CHARA B is working for the CEO VILLAN A
"""""

This was the synopsis of the show

Nd this all happened ik the first 30min



Just expect what would have happened for the rest of 16eps , 1 hr each


Kdramas work on two things

VERY STRONG, INTIMATE, FLESHED OUT, WELL PACED STORY

AND

THE MOST HEARTIEST BUT THOUGHT OUT CHARACTER interaction



The female protag is 21yr old

The male protag is around 44 yr old

That's y the story is called MY MISTER

now lemme quote from a review

" This is my ultimate, most favourite Kdrama of all time. It might not suit everyone's tastes, but it was the first time I cried because a drama ENDED. Finally a drama that is beautiful and breathtaking from start to end.

I guess if you're the type to prefer fluffy, lovey dovey, Kdrama cliche type of dramas, then this won't be for you. My Mister is completely different in terms of the "Kdrama formula." "


"
(Slightly) EDITED:
“A story about three brothers in their 40s and a girl in her 20s facing the hardships of life and helping each other through the process.” The initial description of “My Ahjussi” was something along these lines, and as far as the storyline goes, that is enough to tell you the essence of it. A look at the daily lives of three middle aged men and a young girl. How interesting could it be? What could possibly be happening in their lives that makes it engaging enough to have a whole show about them? Is it something extraordinary? Definitely not. Is it something you have never seen before? Not really. But, is it worth watching? Oh god yes.
"


The best part is the relationship between the pritags

Is it

LOVE

TWO OUTVASTS LOOKING FOR EACH OTHER

FATHER-DAUGHTER

PITY AND SYMPATHY HELP

SELFISH SHIT



Till the end u wouldn't know


Won't even go to other relationships in the show the trio brothers, the side stories ufff just uffff


TRUE Depression, dementia, Death

In the most realest and grounded of ways was show which is the main point

Hell the show ended with thr main chara finally crying

I forgot to tell u, the main protag, reminded me of u , since the first time I saw u, his and Yours personality matches down to T


The FEMALRE PROTAG ufffff

I originally have a set plot in my. Mind, but kdrama always breaks it and cosntructs a new one

The gal I thought was just going to get help and have a happy end

But the shit which she did , made me fkin love her


Ep1 I was confused


Ep2-7 I realized I loved her,

Ep 8-10, I realized she became what i originally thought she was

By last ep, inhad fallen off




Korean girls, and their ability to look that BEAUTIFUL without makeup, cant compare man

The WIFE'S skin was literally glowij on my screen


Just ufffff(currently the song going on is BAKEMONOGATARI ED)

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It's an amazing drama which has quite an interesting story.
I really enjoyed it, but I actually had dropped it for some time since I have a bad habit of stopping a drama when it gets a little bit boring. I don't like skipping a couple of minutes ahead or even episodes (like a lot of people do for some reason) so I got stuck, but I eventually came back to this drama and wasn't disappointed. I even cried which has become pretty rare for me. The show itself is pretty slow paced at moments, but that's what's appealing about it. The atmosphere is pretty dark and the acting of the whole cast was amazing. All the delivered lines at the very end left me in tears.

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Love Love Love!!!

I loved this drama. Initially i watched it for IU but as i watched it i began to like every character and the entire plot. The only this that kind of ticked me off was the wife, Yun-Hee, she made so angry. It seemed like she was playing the victim while she was the one that was cheating. I get it, she's guilty. but don't tell him that you're tired of hearing his sorry's when you should be the one saying sorry. She should be the one happy that he is still with her. I rooted so hard for Ji-An and Dong-Hoon when i got found out she was cheating on him. But they didn't end up together sadly.

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Words can't do justice to how great this drama is - just watch it!

Quite possibly my favourite drama ever. Not being hyperbolic - it’s seriously excellent - and bring tissues. Make space and time for this drama it isn’t easily binged as it’s a bit heavy for that but it will totally reward you for that time.

Spoiler free summary - my words can’t really do justice to this drama it’s that good. You just need to watch it - persevere through the initial bleakness - and you will be rewarded by wonderful drama on the heart in humanity, what it is to live, the power of making a connection, community and the kindness of strangers.

The cast are amazing, most especially the main leads - I’ve seen and loved both IU (Hotel del Luna) and Lee Sun Gyun (Coffee Prince) but they are both on another level here. The direction is deft and the writing assured and subtly brilliant. The characters are so wonderfully rounded and authentic, it’s practically trope free for a KDrama and the OST is just top notch.

Please just watch this - it’s a total masterpiece.

Longer spoiler filled review.

Things I liked:
IU as Lee Ji An. I loved her layered performance. She managed to be so dead in her eyes when we first meet her and we know she’s telling us the truth when she says she can’t wait to die. But she’s also scrappy and strong and in those moments she gets a real fire. In later episodes when she cries, when she tells the selection board what it’s meant to have been noticed and treated well by Dong Hun, when she says sorry 10 times, when she thinks Park Dong Hun is mad at her for wiretapping, she shows such emotional vulnerability and her journey from making herself invisible to growing to love and care for Dong Hun is beautiful.

Lee Sun Gyun - he is such a fantastic actor - this role gives you the whole gamut of his range. He basically was Dong Hun. He inhabited that man of deep emotions and not very many words. His voice, so deep and sonorous was like another character in this drama. I absolutely loved the last part when she picked it out in a cafe and was drawn to it. But even his breathing and his footsteps were marked in this. I love how Ji An said they moved her when she heard them.

Them together - I loved their undefined relationship. I loved how they conveyed how special they found each other’s company, how they could be authentically themselves with each other but so subtly. We see how he’s only really able to be himself in her company rather than the guy who doesn’t answer questions of his wife, Mum and brothers. They know each other and they recognise they know each other. It’s the kind of relationship that I know exists, but so rarely gets portrayed. As someone who spiritually believes in a reincarnated life I think these two have deep relationships in the past and in this life they were brought together to heal each other. I loved that she was so frank with her emotions but despite it, it didn’t need to then turn into a mawkish unrequited love or romance, as it wouldn’t fit right.

The brothers - I don’t have a lot of experience of brother only relationships but to me this was such an authentic trio. I loved how different they were, how fiercely they loved each other, faults and all - and most of all like their mum said - when a bad thing happened to 1 of them they were all depressed. They bought some much needed levity to the drama and again these actors just inhabited their respective characters.

The villain - firstly I just love Kim Yeong-Min as an actor - and he made this wholly unlovable character so believable. Rat-like and such a jerk, but a bit menacing with it, we know what Yoon-Hee means when she says she is embarrassed she fell for him. I like that we didn’t need flashbacks to see what kind of person he was at college and how he came to be CEO.

Gi Hun & Yu Ra - they really grew on me and in my own continuation of this drama they get back together again (though they will probably split up and get back together..) I love how they made Yu Ra, this seemingly ditsy character have a lot more depth and some of her lines were some of the most profound in the entire drama. I loved the scene where he broke down and explained why he’d been so awful to her in their movie. Amazing. (I didn’t like this actress Kwon Nara in Suspicious Partners so am glad I’ve seen this performance from her)

Special shout outs to Dong Hun’s Mum - the ever brilliant Go Doo Shim - to an evil but vulnerable Jang Ki Young (giving us glimpses of the man he could have been without the abusive dad) and to Ji An’s grandmother, who made me cry so badly in so many scenes.

Things I didn’t like - nothing. Really nothing. Everything was just pitch perfect.

In fact for me, the writers got everything right in this drama including the bittersweet ending. The only thing I was missing was an explainer on Ji An’s relationship to Ki Bum - I assume he was her childhood friend in the one flashback they had with all 3 of them after one of the times she’d been beaten up. But it s a tiny minor quibble.

And the OST. This is amazing. It’s on repeat. Even if it does make me want to curl up in a morbid ball and sob. Thanks Viki translators as ever but especially for the lyrics of the songs which went so well with the drama.

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wahhhh...by far the BEST drama I have watched...it was a nice way to end my kdrama 2018 journey. The writer deserves recognition and the cast was superb! IU was phenomenal in this and I think she should continue her acting career because she is so talented. The cast had perfect chemistry! At first, I laughed at the concept of this drama but for some reason, I just decided to watch it. I always find the dramas that I overlook and revisit several times turn out to be THE BEST!!! I highly recommend. I cried, laughed and truly learned so much through the story. It really made me reflect upon my own life and to be thankful. These kinds of life lesson dramas are what make KDRAMAS totally worth it to watch. I ditched the Western dramas because they are all garbage and they make everything so dirty and perverted and they all have no substance or value. THIS IS A MUST WATCH!!!! You will be captured by the first until the last episode!

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Watch the series, and you'll want to watch it all over again.

While the rich chase the best positions in companies, the downtrodden try to survive. This series focuses on the latter screaming from the depths of humanity.
Screaming and being heard.
JiAn is a young outcast ready to do anything to get out of debts imposed on her by creditors, who conveniently "forgot" that she had no duty to accept the debt.
While working in a company she experiences what had eluded her until then: falling for someone.
Towards the end, DongHoon locates JiAn on the run to make sure she won't have to testify and reveal humiliating details in the life of DongHoon and his wife. DH locates her and enters's JiAn's small room. The scene is akin to a human feeling like a worm when Divine Grace presents Itself (I am unworthy, don't come close to me ...). She got saved!
The wasn't the only one, who bettered her life. Her paralytic and mute grandma died in peace, her accomplice GiBom escaped prosecution, her abuser KwangIl redeemed himself, couples were saved, people found jobs, ...
Watch the series, and you'll want to watch it all over again.

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Peace

"Every relationship is precious"
A story that I could only describe in one word:
"Perfect" (10/10)
The title itself "my mister (ajusshi)" describes the setting of the story where a young girl meets a middle-aged man and throughout the story, formed a relationship that would further shape the world around them.
Each character has depth, each dialogue has weight, each scene has significance to the story. I love how natural things appear as I watched all 16 episodes of this series. It felt as if I was watching a real person, not a Drama Series, but a real life of a real person. Ji Ahn being this precious little girl, Dong Hoon being the kind & ideal adult, and the good friends that surround the two of them, creates this wonderful world found in their small neighborhood. The story and characters are so well written that it can easily be relatable to any demographic.


The Cast made a really amazing job at portraying to us the characters of this story. The acting was superb and was accompanied by the music that could make your heart melt or make you feel good depending on the scene. The lines were delivered with power and emotion that could make you cover your face and try not to cry, and the scenes were played so well that even when they just stood or walk or even breathed had made me feel the EMOTIONS of each character. The cinematography and the direction of each episode is not of the ordinary Dramas out there, this really gets you immersed to the story and attached to the characters.
Acting/Cast (10/10) , Music (10/10)

This is definitely one of the best Drama series out there. And simply one of my most favorite stories. I would definitely revisit each of my favorite scenes in the future. Rewatch Value (10/10)
As a friend of mine convinced me to watch this drama, I would also highly recommend this anyone interested in watching Dramas that are worth your time and has the good story.
Overall (10/10)

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as criticas abortadas nesse dorama

as criticas que esse dorama faz são simplesmente minuciosas,essas críticas são detalhes que eu geralmente amo demais principalmente quando é um dorama com alguém famosos (que no caso é a UI)amo esse tipo de dorama com essa vibe meio melancólica brigas patifaria e tudo mais,uma das coisas que me surpreendeu foi a atuação da protagonista eu não esperava que fosse ruim mas foi algo que me surpreendeu de certa forma acho que ela pode ter um futuro promissor sim, assitir isso me dava de uma certa forma euforia,sempre conseguiam me pegar de surpresa isso é oq mais me chamou a atenção. é um dorama meio pessadinho não acho que é pra qualquer um não

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One of the best show

"My Mister" is a remarkable Korean drama that delves deep into the complexities of human relationships, highlighting the power of empathy, kindness, and resilience. With its exceptional storytelling, nuanced characters, and thought-provoking themes, this series stands out as a masterpiece that leaves a lasting impact on its viewers.

The drama revolves around the lives of Park Dong-hoon (Lee Sun-kyun), a middle-aged man dealing with personal and professional struggles, and Lee Ji-an (IU), a young woman burdened by a difficult past. Their paths intersect, leading to a transformative connection that becomes the core of the narrative. As the story unfolds, it unravels the layers of pain, hope, and redemption, showcasing the profound impact a single act of kindness can have on someone's life.

One of the greatest strengths of "My Mister" lies in its compelling and well-developed characters. Lee Sun-kyun delivers a breathtaking performance as Park Dong-hoon, capturing the essence of a man carrying the weight of the world on his shoulders with subtlety and depth. IU shines as Lee Ji-an, showcasing her versatility as an actress by portraying the complex emotions of a vulnerable yet resilient young woman. The chemistry between the two leads is remarkable, evoking a deep sense of empathy and understanding.

The writing in "My Mister" is exceptional, offering a raw and honest portrayal of life's struggles and the power of human connection. The drama tackles a range of themes, including loneliness, family dynamics, societal pressure, and the pursuit of happiness. It delves into the depths of human emotions, exploring both the darkness and the resilience that resides within each character. The narrative unfolds gradually, allowing for a deep exploration of the characters' journeys and providing moments of introspection and contemplation for the viewers.

Visually, "My Mister" is beautifully crafted, with its subdued color palette and atmospheric cinematography perfectly capturing the somber tone of the story. The directing and editing choices enhance the emotional impact of the scenes, creating a sense of intimacy and immersion that draws the audience further into the characters' lives.

Moreover, the drama's supporting cast deserves applause for their compelling performances. Each character is intricately woven into the narrative, adding depth and authenticity to the overall storytelling. The relationships and interactions between the characters are profoundly moving, reflecting the complexities and intricacies of human connections.

"My Mister" is not without its moments of darkness and sadness. It tackles heavy themes and portrays the harsh realities of life. However, it is through these challenges that the drama finds its beauty, as it reminds us of the strength of the human spirit and the transformative power of compassion.

In conclusion, "My Mister" is an extraordinary Korean drama that transcends the boundaries of conventional storytelling. With its powerful performances, poignant writing, and profound exploration of human emotions, it leaves a lasting impression on its viewers. This series is a must-watch for those seeking a thought-provoking and emotionally resonant drama that celebrates the resilience of the human spirit and the transformative power of human connections.

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FROM NOW ON, LET'S BE HAPPY.

Watching My Mister was the equivalent of waking up early in the morning while it's raining or snowing outside and curling up beneath the warm sheets, knowing you won't have to get out of bed for a little while longer and you can just enjoy this moment of peace. (I'm not joking when I say that this drama is probably best enjoyed during the months of December and January — at the very least I'm glad I was able to watch it during the month of November.)

There is a lot going on in this drama but at the very heart of it, you have a story about humans. Just humans. Humans eating, humans drinking, humans dying, humans hurting, humans loving. Humans going through the cycle of their everyday lives. Old humans, young humans, rich humans, poor humans, successful humans. Pitiful, pitiful, and yet very nice humans. I'm repeating the word human a lot because quite frankly, that is what this show is about (If you're looking for romance, you might be disappointed, but if you're interested in office politics, I would definitely give this drama a try).

Humans are delightfully messy and sometimes we hurt each other and break beautiful things, and My Mister definitely acknowledges & portrays that side of humanity, but there is a kindness here, too. We live in a very interesting age where it's easy to lose sight of what is important because of the difficulties we face, and we also live in a time where human connection is now more important than ever. We all need people like that in our lives, someone who reminds us to eat and asks us if we want anything from the grocery store or someone who will come to your grandmother's funeral and tell you that if you want it to be nothing then it can be nothing. Watching all of these characters, all of these humans connect with each other, crying for each other, fighting for each other, helped to remind me of that, and I just know that I'm going to be thinking all of these characters and their stories for a while.

Also, as someone's who's struggled with depression and anxiety for several years now, I was pretty astounded at the way My Mister represented these struggles with mental health. I've never seen a piece of media before handle this topic in such a gentle way, and yet at the same time, they also didn't hesitate to show all of the less-than-pleasant parts, too. This was a very honest show; no romanticization whatsoever. They didn't hold anything back, and for that, I really appreciate it.

Overall, if you are perhaps looking for a story centered around the aspects of humanity that often get overlooked in other pieces of media, and if you're in the mood for a good cry, I would definitely recommend My Mister. I fact, I would probably just about recommend this show for everyone in need of something healing to watch.

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Lenta, pero hermosa y memorable

Cuando empecé esta serie no imaginé que iba a encontrarme con una de las relaciones más hermosas que he visto en un dorama. La construcción de la historia es perfecta; se toma todo su tiempo para plantear a cada uno de los personajes, los vínculos entre ellos y las cosas que los aquejan. Sólo entonces comenzamos a ver el lento progreso de la relación entre nuestros dos protagonistas, quienes al principio son como el agua y el aceite y no parece haber forma de entender cómo podrían llegar a ser cercanos. Es un guión excelentemente escrito y pensado.

El ritmo de la serie es súper lento y un poco pesado; no me parece algo maratoneable, pero no es una serie que podría dejar colgada. Necesitaba saber cómo seguiría, sentía que necesitaba llegar a ver el final porque genuinamente me importaba saber si Dong Hoon y Ji An estarían bien o no, y cómo terminarían las cosas entre ellos. Me encariñé muchísimo con ambos y su relación me llegó muy profundo. Toda la serie estaba gritándole a la pantalla que se abrazacen.

"Mi señor" es una serie sobre la soledad y la melancolía de la vida cotidiana, sobre la búsqueda de la paz interior y la importancia de la comunicación. Es sobre la importancia que los gestos más pequeños pueden tener en otros, para los que esa sencillez puede significar el mundo, porque están acostumbrados a solamente el malestar. Tanto la trama principal como las subtramas de los dos hermanos de Dong Hoon exploran muchas cuestiones de la adultez y la vida (con una clara mirada desde la cultura coreana).

A nivel técnico, la serie me gusta mucho cómo está hecha. Visualmente me encanta la estética, las paletas de colores frías y pálidas que le van perfectas al tono de la historia; los planos, bien pensandos que acompañan la mirada de los personajes. La producción está súper bien, y la música me encantó. ¿Un poco melodramática? Sí, pero es que va perfecto con la serie... Si es básicamente una telenovela de la tarde con sus tragedias familiares. Lo único a lo que no me acostumbraba fue al efecto de movimiento en cámara lenta cuando los personajes toman alcohol, pero al menos entendí la intención de ese recurso, y tiene sentido.

Lo único que tal vez le criticaría a "Mi Señor" es el hecho de que el hijo de Park Dong Hoon podría no existir, que daría casi lo mismo a lo largo de la historia. Tardan muchísimo en explicar por qué no aparece (de hecho, llegué a pensar que estaba muerto y por eso el señor vive tan triste), y aunque de vez en cuando se comunica con los padres, parece haber un distanciamiento muy fuerte, que dudo fuese intencional porque de ser así habría sido un tema tratado en la historia, como el resto de los conflictos que aquejan a los personajes. Ojo, como dije, esta es una serie claramente planteada desde la perspectiva de la mentalidad y cultura coreana, y tal vez sea algo común este tipo de relación a distancia, no lo descarto.

Finalmente, quiero alabar las actuaciones formidables de Lee Sun Kyun y de IU; son dos actores increíbles que la rompen en cada capítulo, expresan cada emoción perfectamente y claramente tuvieron muy buena química, porque las escenas entre ellos son atrapantes, tensas y muy emotivas. El resto del casting no se queda atrás, a todos les creí sus personajes, incluso al hermano menor de Dong Hoon, que es un insoportable que grita demasiado, pero va con el carácter podrido del personaje.

En fin... Una serie maravillosa, que me llegó muy profundo y me conmovió un montón, con un final que me dejó súper satisfecha y que por fortuna no fue el final más chapado a la antigua mentalidad coreana que esperaba. La recomiendo un montón para cuando quieran ver una historia compleja y una relación bellísima que no se supera más.

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