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Because this is our first life!
A short disclaimer. I watched this drama about half a year ago, so I do not remember everything that quite well any more.What I do recall nonetheless is that I totally loved it and that it was addictive to watch.
The drama is about Yoon Ji Ho who lives a miserable life. She is a drama-writer and gets used by her boss. She is not allowed to write what she really likes and gets sexually assaulted by her colleagues. Furthermore, her little brother got his girlfriend pregnant, and her parents kick her out of the house, she paid all the bills for. She quickly needs to find a place to stay and rents a room online. Because of her name the owner of the house is not aware that she is a woman and due to their daily schedules they do not see each other for a couple of days. However, when they find out that they are living together with the opposite sex, they are drafting a contract to get married. Nam Se Hee an (Owner?) of a dating-app company needs a wife to receive money from his father, and that is why the marriage comes handily for him, too.
Next to the main characters, we meet their best friends and love interests. Yang Ho Rang's goal is to get married to her boyfriend and have a family. Her boyfriend Shim Won Seok also works at the same company as Nam Se Hee and is unsure about what he desires. Yoon Ji Ho's other friend Woo Soo Ji works in a huge company, in which women are treated awfully, she needs to fight her way to the top.
So, what was so special?
What I absolutely enjoyed is that the drama felt very realistic, and the characters stayed true to themselves. Yoon Ji Ho is rather a silent girl. She is not good at standing up for herself and she gets an amazing character development, but she is never portrayed like not herself. This accounts also to the other characters (but with different traits, though).
Also, the drama talks about couples living together, having sex and many girls talk.
I would compare it to a very good mix of the general Korean standards of a drama but with rather western features, if that makes sense.
Yoon Ji Ho and her girls squad are hilarious, and I enjoyed their interactions. They very much reminded me of my two girls. Also, one in a long term relationship and the other making carrier and me being somewhere in-between and nowhere:D.
Every story was nicely built, and all the relationships developed differently. There were also a lot of twists and turns.
So do not hesitate any more and give it a go. :)
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Evlilik üzerine
(TR) Hikaye çok güzeldi. Konun işleyiş tarzı diğer rom-comlardan farklıydı.Hher bölümde verilen mesajlar ise çok anlamlıydı. Sürekli ekran görüntüsü aldım durdum. 3 farklı ilişki üzerinden evliliği incelemişler ve bunu yaparken de oldukça temiz bir iş çıkarmışlar. O ebeveynlerin davranışlarına kızamadım bile çünkü bir yanım onlara da hak veriyordu. Senaryo güzel yazılmıştı, ara ara anlamadığım yerler vardı tabi ama bunu yaşıma(bu konulardaki bilgisizliğime daha doğrusu) veriyorum. Sadece bazı ara sahneleri çok uzun geldi bana. Ara ara "Hint dizisi mi bu yahu" dediğim oldu. Bunun dışında oldukça güzel ve eğlenceliydi. Evlilikle ilgili bakış açımı gözden geçirmemi ve farklı bakış açılarını da anlamamı sağladı diyebilirim. Sonuç olarak:Gelecekte ,zamanla farklılaşan bakış açımla tekrar izleyeceğimi düşündüğüm, farklı bakış açılarıyla dolu bir diziydi. Yanii tavsiye ederim a dostlar izleyin izlettirinn >o<
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IF YOU HAVE HIGH EXPECTATION OF THIS DRAMA...THE DRAMA WILL STILL EXCEED THEM
Its only been 5 mins since I have re-watched the drama...Yeah it was go good I re watched it, I don't know how to explain my feelings, Its in my TOP 3 dramas for sure....I don;t know if it is weird coming form a guy but this drama has my fav kissing scene!!! I mean the kissing has a actual plot development...It has a meaning to it...K dramas has very memorable romantic scenes but this one takes the win for me...I think I should stop hereAbout the story- I don;t know where to start...Its show is about marriage if I have to simplify it...this show asks questions that I know I have to ask myself when I get married...If 2 people love each other is marriage the last option or is it a beginning!! This Drama also tackles some social topics...I can't name all of them but the show handled them very well...but the strongest part of the drama for me was the overall message I got form the show...I used to think that actions are enough for someone to understand but as I am getting to older and will soon enters my 20's, I understood the meaning of words and telling how I actually feel...This drama has many lines that will fill your heart
The characters grow as we progress with the story ...This is not a type of drama where you can shut your mind and relax...for me this this drama had some value in my life...Hope you like it too...Thank You
And a message for myself if I ever read this review in the future...and anyone who will read It guess...We all know its okay to make mistakes but people expect us to make no mistakes as we get older...Yes we get mature and have some understanding but why the world expects us to feel nothing as we get older...I am not even 20 but I have experienced it...Its okay to cry, make mistakes, be embarrassed...it does not matter if you are 20,30,40 because we all are living for the first time
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A heartfelt drama that starts out as a contractual marriage that blossoms into everything and anything. So sweet and follows several couples navigating the social norms of people in their 30's in Korea. -- Spoilers Below --
Yoon Ji Ho is a single, drama writer who is trying to live out her dream as becoming a lead writer on a show. She has worked and written for several, but hasn't gotten her big start in the scene yet. While working on one of her dramas, she's needing a cheap place to rent but cannot find any within her price range. Eventually, she's set up with someone else who is looking for a roommate to help pay for his apartment. She moves in, not knowing that she is sharing her now apartment with a man, and enjoys the space she now has. They run into each other and start becoming somewhat closer due to their shared liking of several things and her being an easy roommate. This leads to them starting a contractual marriage between the two because of his parents constant pressure due to him being older than 30. It's awkward and new, but new feelings begin to blossom between the two and Ji Ho slowly falls in love with the enigma of a man. Everything is going great, minus Nam Se Hee never speaking his mind or true feelings, but she gets put through the ringer several times. She quits writing because of one of her coworkers attempting to rape her one night while she was staying late. She gets offered a new job with amazing pay, but her boss is Se Hee's ex-girlfriend that took him forever to get over, and last but not least... Se Hee's parents try to bribe her with money to get her to stay home and have his children. They overcome all of this though, officially filing for their marriage and creating a new contract just for them. She ends up following her dream and writes her first big drama: Because This is My First Life.
Nam Se Hee's character is exactly like I said - an enigma. He is quiet, mild-tempered, and keeps to himself. His goal in life is to live peacefully with his home and cat. Se Hee finds it hard to find roommates that fit his exact needs and likes, but settles on Ji Ho after looking at all the pros and cons. They eventually contract marry and begin living together as such. He slowly realizes that he loves her, but finds it hard to truly accept that fact due to his past relationship. Se Hee and Go Jung Min were lovers who had moved in together during college. Jung Min eventually falls pregnant and the two promise to marry and live together as a family. Due to their age and See Hee's overall maturity and selfishness, they lose the baby and Jung Min leaves him. She curses that he'll never love again and doesn't deserve to, and he truly takes this to heart and blames himself. Slowly overtime, he overcomes those feelings and realizes that he does deserve love and that he truly loves Ji Ho. After she leaves him due to his parents giving her money for a baby, he finds himself in the same spot after Jung Min left. He sells his apartment they once shared and moves into her friends place not being able to be in the space him and Ji Ho once shared. They eventually make amends and confess their feelings to one another, officially becoming married and living happily together. He lets her pursue her writing job, just as he promised.
This drama also follows 2 sets of Ji Ho's friends. Ho Rang and Won Seok have been together for 7 years and are school sweethearts. The only problem in their relationship is Ho Rang's constant need for marriage and more. The first conflict is with her wanting a couple's couch that all the newlywed's are buying. Won Seok plans a huge thing with their friend Soo Ji, which Ho Rang see's and believes he's planning a proposal, to buy her the couch she wanted. When she gets home to see the surprise, she's devastated that it's not what she was expecting. This leads to more feelings of pressure on Won Seok and the immense feeling that he is constantly making Ho Rang unhappy. Se Hee tells him that he needs to be more honest with his feelings towards her. The two have a romantic dinner, Won Seok beginning the conversation with that he would love to get married, but doesn't see the difference between love and marriage at the moment. He also adds that he wouldn't want to get married until 5 years later. With this news, Ho Rang is devastated again (I really did not like her character at all) and tells him that she doesn't want to date for 12 years. While at play together after the dinner, her phone goes off when she's in the bathroom, and Won Seok finds that she had downloaded a dating app and was talking to a man on there. This leads to their actual breakup, which begins Ho Rang seeing the guy that she met on the app. The two realize that they are actually meant for and love each other and get back together, eventually marrying and having a baby.
The other friend that was my favorite was Soo Ji. A confident, yet intelligent woman who works amongst men in the corporate world. She navigates the mysogynstic, sexist workplace and never shows that she needs help from anyone. Her and Ma Sang Goo start up a flirt-mance, but she doesn't want to take it to the next level. With time her mind changes and they become more, but she still has a wall up that he cannot get past. While trying to get closer, he believes that she's cheating on him with another man. He races up after her and finds that she truly just lives with and takes care of her disabled mother. He learns that her mother is single and lived working to take care of Soo Ji. The two eventually tell her mom and Soo Ji accepts that she truly loves Sang Goo and doesn't necessarily need him around - but want's him around. I loved their romance so much and the stark difference between their personalities added such good comedic relief between all the heavy storylines that were going on.
A beautiful, well-written story that I could watch over and over.
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Poetry Books made as drama
This drama has the most poetic script and I'm sucker of it. Even the cinematography is poetic. Yet I didn't think this one is for everyone, but I swear if you're part of this semi-niche market, you will love it to the core. This feels very raw, kinda egoistic, also quirky, a very unrealistic way to achieve the most realistic needs. But despite quirkiness, idyllic is also big part of this drama.And for the cast, I think Jung So Min is the perfect one for this. This one is really her vibes.
Ah, and I just realized that I already rewatched it at least 3 times, maybe more. The drama speak deeper to me, I think.
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Oque posso dizer com certeza é que este dorama estará sempre no topo do meu ranking, esse é um dorama com um plot um poouco cliché de casamento por contrato, mas eu particularmente amo!!!
É um dorama para um público mais maduro, mas eu acho que possa agradar diversos públicos diferentes, é um dorama lindo que trata diversos tópicos sobre família, amor e vida adulta de uma maneira muito boa.
Lembro que esse dorama me fez chorar com muitas cenas, mas também me fez rir bastante.
Acho que nunca vou me cansar de recomendar esse dorama, e também nunca vou me cansar dele, sinto que esse dorama é como um braço bem quentinho <3
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was way to slow for me!
ok like. i tried so hard to like this one, bcus people SWEAR by it. however, it was so damn slow in the beginning and i literally felt no chemistry between the leads until like the 10th episode. tell me why i was more invested in the second leads. however, the chemistry from like 10-14... woah. WAS AMAZING. like genuinely i was hooked and needed to finish asap. there was soooo much going wrong in the last two episodes though, i do not understand why ji-hoo just dipped and they divorced, was entirely stupid... how about we just talk next time? also... wish we saw more on won-seok and rang's relationship cus girl... it was really destined to end and not sure how they magically made up.Considerați utilă această recenzie?
Still Very Good After Re-Watching
This was one of the first K-dramas I watched (back in 2020) and I liked it so much I re-watched it in 2022. I still like it a lot, and understood a few more words!Starting with the good, and why I think this drama is well worth watching: There are three couples with different types of relationships, the main leads with the fake marriage, the second couple with the casual relationship and the third couple who has been dating for years. All three types of relationships evolve during the course of the show and are portrayed really well. The characters are very likeable and the acting was top-notch. I especially enjoyed Esom as the fiery second female lead.
What I also liked was the depiction of current issues like expensive housing, discrimination at the workplace, a “me too” moment where the girl is just supposed to just let it slide, and the overall problem of living in a patriarchic society as a woman. There is some wry humor, too. The show overall is light-hearted but with some depths as well.
The not-so-good: The show kept a good pace in the first few episodes but then got a bit draggy. Several dialogues went nowhere and I just wanted to yell at the characters to spit it out already. The female lead in particular was a bit vague, which led to misunderstandings, which took a while to clear up and caused the male lead some unnecessary suffering. But this show definitely has so many strong points that it can easily be forgiven when it drags a little. I certainly enjoyed watching it twice.
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Me surpreendeu
Sabe aquela série que você passa várias vezes na tela, mas que não te chama a atenção? Foi exatamente o que aconteceu comigo com Porque Esta É a Minha Primeira Vida. Parecia apenas mais um K-Drama entre tantos, até que, um dia, assisti a alguns vídeos sobre ele. Algo ali despertou meu interesse, e decidi dar uma chance. Assim que comecei, me vi tão envolvida que maratonei tudo em dois dias. A cada episódio, a história se tornava mais cativante, me deixando curiosa e ansiosa para ver o que mais os personagens enfrentariam.O que realmente me conquistou foi a forma como o roteirista desenhou a vida de cada personagem com tanto cuidado. As três amigas protagonistas, cada uma com suas frustrações e sonhos, e os três homens, também repletos de suas próprias aspirações e desafios. Cada personagem é único, e essa diversidade trouxe uma profundidade rara à trama. São pessoas muito diferentes, com bagagens e perspectivas distintas, e é exatamente isso que torna a conexão entre eles ainda mais especial e verdadeira. A construção de cada casal é tocante, pois mostra como essas diferenças acabam por aproximá-los, ajudando cada um a evoluir.
Uma das maiores belezas do drama é como ele não trata os erros como fracassos, mas como aprendizados essenciais. Cada personagem comete deslizes, enfrenta dúvidas e, a partir disso, cresce. É como se, através de cada erro, eles se tornassem mais conscientes, mais maduros. Esse processo de amadurecimento me envolveu profundamente, porque, ao longo da série, você não só assiste à transformação dos personagens – você também se sente parte dela.
E como não falar do sonho de Ji Ho? Ela tem o desejo profundo de ser escritora, mas não uma escritora qualquer. Esse sonho a leva a uma jornada interna intensa, onde ela questiona o tipo de escritora que quer ser e o que realmente importa em sua vida. E, ao se permitir viver o amor, ela também encontra inspiração para sua escrita. Viver esse amor transformou não apenas sua história, mas também a maneira como ela escolheu expressar suas palavras e sentimentos. É tão autêntico que você sente a paixão dela em cada linha e decisão.
Simplesmente amei Porque Esta É a Minha Primeira Vida porque não se trata apenas de uma história de amor, mas de uma jornada de autoconhecimento, de aceitação das imperfeições e de celebração das pequenas alegrias da vida. É um K-Drama que nos mostra que, mesmo em meio aos desafios, sempre podemos crescer e encontrar significado.
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I highly recommended drama
this drama is so good, I would highly recommend this drama if you haven't watched it. I even finished it in a day because it got my attention and I hope it gets your attention too. I think it was really interesting how they got their audience's attention and if you are into romance dramas this is a good one. The drama is about an employee and socially awkward Nam Se-hee (Lee Min-ki) marries homeless writer Yoon Ji-ho (Jung So-min) by signing a contract of two years. Both parties agree to the terms and conditions of being just landlord and tenant. They plan to share the flat based on common goals and values, but without any feelings involved. Things do not go as planned since the housemates fall prey to their personal trauma, social expectations, and familial interventions. The series also follows the lives of Se-hee and Ji-Ho's friends and their different perspectives on love and marriage.Considerați utilă această recenzie?
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It is Relatable
The story plot is relatable in terms of the daily life struggles in finances, relationships, societal issues, and self-improvement. The convenient marriage was a bit much for me that Lee Minki and Jung Somin could've dealt their financial problems in another way but it wouldn't be a thicker plotline. As of the other plots of the story, I really liked the portrayal of Esom and how she dealt with societal issues in her workplace, her relationship, and her self. The way Esom confronted her male co-workers about her no-bra. HELLO!!! For every women, it's a big conflict we face whatever the size is. Later on, she decides to get custom-made bra was great idea that Esom's character's self-improvement in harassments and gender inequality of the society.Considerați utilă această recenzie?
